Zechariah 13:9

And I will bring the third part through the fire, and will refine them as silver is refined, and will try them as gold is tried; they shall call on my name, and I will hear them: I will say, It is my people: and they shall say, The Lord is my God. Zechariah 13:9

Friday, July 22, 2011

Uriah is 10!


Friday, 22 July 2011

  • Uriah is 10!

    Today, Uriah turned 10 years old.  He loves his birthdays and always looks forward to having a party.  He requested lasagna, cabbage salad, cake and ice-cream.  Kelsey made yankee bread and cookies.  It was soooo hot today, so we were thinking of recipes we can make that didn't require the oven.  The lasagna I put in the cooker, in the basement, so we wouldn't have that heat in the kitchen and I found a no-bake cake recipe.  It was good, but rich.  And to top everything off, we made ice-cream again.  Happy Birthday, dear Uriah.  We love you!   He wanted to decorate his cake ......




    No-bake Chocolate Peanut Butter Cake
    6 T. Butter
    3/4 C. peanut butter
    1 C. graham cracker crumbs
    1 C. powdered sugar
    1 C. chocolate chips
    Mix the first 4 ingredients together and press into a pan.  Melt chips and spread on top.  Put in fridge till ready to eat.

    Rich and filling!

    Until next time...............

Sunday, July 10, 2011

If a Woodchuck Would.......Get Roasted


Sunday, 10 July 2011

  • If a Woodchuck Would ......Get Roasted

    Another word for woodchuck is groundhog.  They are those animals that make these huge holes in the middle of your fields and all farmers would like to see them become extinct.  They are also an animal that is often seen squashed on the road - all smelly with flies and vultures picking at.  Well, Gordon has been talking about shooting one of them and seeing what they taste like.  Yesterday, Dave happened to see one in the pasture and decided that since Gordon's birthday is tomorrow, he is going to shoot it and give it as a surprise present to our favorite son-in-law.  He made a clean shot and the butcher of the family offered to skin and gut it.
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    We put it in salt water over night and this morning I made a sauce of olive oil, garlic powder, onions, parsley, oregano, ketchup and water and filled the woodchuck's cavity and roasted it in one of our cookers.
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    We were all really trying to be positive about this experience but we decided that maybe if we called it a woodchuck and not a groundhog it would help.  As the morning went on the odor from the cooker really didn't smell that bad, in fact, it was smelling pretty good.  Hey, just maybe we will like this cheap abundant meat, especially if we add lots of sauce!  I had also put 2 chickens, potatoes and carrots in another roaster and fried up fish that Dave and boys caught yesterday.
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    The Bross family arrived, we sat down for lunch and Dave explained that we wanted to make an extra special treat for Gordon for his birthday and opened the lid of the woodchuck cooker.  Gordon guessed right away what it was!  And since it was for him, surely he would want to be the first to try it!  Yes, surely!  
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    Every one of us, except Dave, tasted it.   Ben couldn't stand it (might have something to do with him butchering it?), the rest of us thought it was good the first bite and then we decided that MAYBE it was good and after awhile my mind refused for me to take another nibble!  It's these mind games!  Envisioning that I was actually eating one of those "roadkill" animals was just not a vision that I could "stomach" any longer.   Dear Kelsey decided that she is going to take the meat off the bones and maybe Gordon would eat it in a sandwich.  Or maybe he will take it to work and see if anyone can guess what it is?  (BTW, only 4 (or less) more weeks till baby Bross arrives!  Can't wait!)
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    Well, the rest of the meal was good, especially the home-made ice-cream and birthday cake......
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    Happy 24th birthday to Gordon!  We love having you part of our family!  Please be careful next year what you want for your birthday, though.  Dave might decide to provide it for you!
    All jokes aside . . .  some day we may be only too happy to eat groundhog, oh! I mean woodchuck, and I am positive in other countries they would be very grateful for it.   They are an animal that feeds off of grass and not garbage or rotten whatever that pigs eat.  And did you ever think what chickens peck at?  But, how we love sausage and fried chicken!  Like I said, I think it comes down to the getting it past our minds and noses and what we are accustomed to.  So, if a woodchuck would . . . . get roasted, would you try it?
    Until next time..............

Friday, July 1, 2011

The Prodigal Son's Mother


Friday, 01 July 2011

  • The Prodigal Son's Mother

    The scriptures have quite a few wonderful parables, but the one that I ponder on the most is the one involving the prodigal son.  I think it intriques me because there are some unanswered questions about the whole situation.  Here is the story . . .  There was a man who had 2 sons and the younger one says to his father "Father, give me the portion of goods that falleth me".  In other words, "Dad, I want my share of the inheritance.  I want everything that I will get when you pass away, but I want it now.  I don't want to wait."  So the father hands it over, the son takes it and very soon turns all the assets into cold hard cash and wastes every penny on "riotous" living.  Did he think to invest it for the future?  Nope!  He has no thought for the future, or he would have never asked for his inheritance in the first place.  He wants to live it up and do whatever his flesh desires, and that is exactly what he did, but only for a short time.  Very soon, he became a boy with no possessions, no money and no friends.  In the midst of all this, a "mighty" famine comes upon the land, and he is in dire straights.  He finds a farmer who raises pigs and could use an extra hand and the boy is sent into the fields to feed them.  The job of feeding pigs was considered a very low down degrading job, especially for a Jew.  He became so hungry and desperate that all he wanted was to eat the pig food and to fill his belly, but even that was forbidden him.  The reality of his situation, thoughts of his home, all the luxuries that were being enjoyed by those living there, brought him to the end of himself and to repentence.  He decided he was going to go home to his father, confess his sins, ask for forgiveness and be content to be considered a servant, for he did not feel worthy to be called a son anymore.   You can only imagine how he looked . . . dirty, skinny, tattered and defeated.  He makes his way towards home and his father sees him coming way down the road, feels compassion, runs to him and kisses him.   The story goes on with the father asking the servants to kill the fatted calf and prepare a party.  It continues on telling about the older brother, and that is very interesting also, but I want to stop here.  This is such a moving picture of God lovingly waiting for those who have left Him or those who have never submitted their lives to Him.  I love this picture!  Reading over this parable I also have questions . . . .  how old was this boy?  what drove him to the point of wanting to leave home?  And he knew that by getting his inheritance early, he would no longer have any claims to his father's property.  What was the family home life like?  Did he have more siblings?  And where was his mother?  She is not mentioned at all, so possibly she was no longer living.  But maybe she was and maybe every day she stood watching for him while she done the dishes, or every time she passed a window she would pull back the curtain and peer down the road.  Maybe she would weep in her husband's arms, and he would reassure her that he was watching and waiting also and one day they would see their son again.  Maybe she wondered if she could've done something different to prevent this from happening.  Maybe she thought her husband didn't handle the situation correctly, or maybe she wondered why the younger son was rebellious and the older son so compliant?  I can only imagine the thoughts that would have been swirling around in her head, and I can imagine her sadness and pain in thinking of her son out in the world without her.  I can imagine that each day she knelt down and prayed for him, for his safety and salvation.  The parable lacks details, but if you are a parent, you can put yourself in this father's, and possibly mother's, shoes.   Did they think they messed up as parents and it was their fault he left?  How did they respond to the local gossip that was whispered through the streets?  I don't know the anwers to these questions, but I do know for sure that we have a Heavenly Father who is lovingly peering down the road watching . . . . watching and waiting for His son or daughter to come home . . . to come to Him with all the dirt and filth, with empty, hungry bellies and He will run to meet them, kiss away the hurts, wash away the filth and prepare a feast. There would be rejoicing for the prodigal has come home.   Oh, what a picture................
    Until next time...............  

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

That Dreaded Chapter!


Wednesday, 01 June 2011

  • That Dreaded Chapter!

    Anyone want to take a guess at which chapter I am referring to?  A large part of it has to do with women.  We had been working through the Proverbs as a family and came to chapter 31.  "Oh, please Dave, couldn't we just skip over this one?"  I have this love/hate relationship with this Proverbs 31 woman and depending on how I am feeling about myself, I would just like to ignore her - to just forget about that chapter.   I wonder how anxious a man would be at reading a chapter that laid out 22 points about the excellent man?  I guess that would depend on how macho he felt about himself at the moment.
    Well, we read the chapter, discussed it and my dear husband reassured me that he felt no condemnation towards me at all.  He is so gracious!  I have been thinking . . . . . . about this wonder woman . . . . . . 
    "She is rare, trustworthy, constant in her love and respect towards her husband, industrious, thrifty, self-starting, enterprising, willing to do hard work, willing to work long hours, willing to do monotonous work, compassionate, prepared for the future, a good seamstress, married to a leader, an entrepreneur, not swayed by circumstances, wise and kind, duty-conscious, blessed by her family, not satisfied with the mediocre, a woman of God, praiseworthy, a woman of means and a woman of great skill and ability.  She is a woman of God who is enterprising and dedicated to her home." (from the footnotes in my Bible)
    Over the years, I have witnessed people setting "unspoken" guidelines on what a woman should and shouldn't do or be, because "that" is a man's responsibility, or "that" does not look like something a submissive wife would do.  What "submissive" wife would go out and buy property and then proceed to make it a productive piece of land?  This woman does!  She works hard, very hard, from sun up to sun down and I know that she did it cheerfully and lovingly, for her husband and her children call her "blessed" (not "grumpy") and her husband praises and trusts her.  Her whole being is dedicated to serving . . .  serving her husband, her family, her community . . . simply, quietly, firmly, and boldly.  She realizes that she is a key person in creating the right atmosphere in her home, in demonstrating Godly principles to her children.  She is no whipped pup, but a woman with a purpose and goal to make life as good as possible while meeting the physical, material and spiritual needs of her family.  Should we get discouraged thinking about this woman?  I don't think so.  I couldn't find anywhere about her age, but really, she could be 105.  So take heart, we still have time!  Hee! Hee!  No, seriously, I serve a God who is patient, loving, compassionate, understanding, not only to those around me, but to me and to you -busy, sometimes overwhelmed, not-getting-it-all-done, wife and mother.   He knows where each of us are in our journey of womanhood and He knows our hearts and desires!  I will choose to rest in Him, and in my husband, for their acceptance and guidance and will continue to look at this Proverbs 31 woman in awe and wonder, for truly she is a rare find.
    Until next time.............

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Our Farm Life Beginnings


Thursday, 19 May 2011

  • Our Farm Life Beginnings

    Dave has always had agriculture in his blood.   He did not grow up on a farm, but helped neighboring farmers either grow produce or milk cows.  I, also, did not grow up on a farm and never dreamt that I would ever live on one.  Dave eventually started working in construction.  After we got married and were able to live in the country on 2 acres, Dave was able to satisfy some of his agriculture longings by growing produce and selling it to local stores and going to produce auctions.  At the beginning of 1998, we opened a small bulk food and produce store.  We were only open on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays.  It started out looking like this.....but we quickly built shelves and counters....
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    We raised what we could for the store and also purchased wholesale from Bill's Produce. Around the time we were getting ready to open this, Dave fell 13 ft. through a barn floor at a construction site.  He hit his head, needed stitches, had a concussion, broke some ribs and twisted his knee.  We also learned that I was pregnant with #4.
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    He was off work for about 3 months, which allowed him time to do what he could in the store.  We LOVED having him home and it was during this time that we decided to seriously pursue a career that would enable us to work together as a family.  The day he returned to construction there was not a dry eye in our family.   The store thrived all summer and we were loving it, but we reached a point where we either had to get bigger and hire help (our children were not old enough to run it), or quit.  It did not have the income for Dave to quit construction.  I became very restricted with my pregnancy and eventually had to be on bedrest.  Taking all things into consideration, we decided to sell the store.  Sad, but a necessary thing.  However, our goal remained to look for another family opportunity.  We heard of a local farmer who was looking for tenants to rent a farm he just purchased.  Our goal was met and in January 1999, we started milking 98 cows in a palor.
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    We could write a book about the adjustments to dairy life!  Ben was 10, Kelsey 8, Solomon 5, and George 3 months.  We were not able to move into the house on the farm yet, so we had to travel about 1 1/2 miles back and forth to the cows.  Oh my, did we learn alot!  We still talk about the time when we learned that we were going to be dairy farmers and we would be able to work together as a family.  Dave's comment still rings in our ears "this is going to be great!".  That "great" soon, and very soon, became harsh reality!  To some people, dairy farming looks like this gravy occupation where we leisurely milk cows and have part of the day off.  Not true!  Those cows needed to eat and they eat LOTS, which mean they also produce alot of manure, which needed to be cleaned up. We had heifers and calves that needed care and milking took about 2 1/2 hrs. every AM & PM.  We had to have hired help.  Our days became a blur and we realized that our idea of farming was not farming like this.  We didn't want this many cows, nor hired help, nor someone else in control of the feed (we had a deal with the farm owner - he raised the feed for part of the milk check - don't let anyone do that!).  We started looking for a smaller farm, with tie stalls, and one day we saw an ad in the Lancaster Farming that a farm was for rent in a neighboring county.  The barn had not been milked in for years, but could be set up again for dairy.  We took the plunge.  Our family and friends came along side of us and helped to get the place ready for us to move in.
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    That is it!  The picture was taken at the door, so that is how small the barn was.  It was only 28 stalls, so we sold 1/2 the herd.  We would milk all the cows in the barn and then let 1/2 of them out and bring more in.  It was still alot of hard work, but after 2 years of adjusting to the new place, we loved it!  We loved our neighbors, the community, and the farm!  We got to the point where we did not need a hire hand.  Dave had to work away a few days a week, though, but it was still good.  We have many fond memories of the place on Schwartz Valley Rd..  We had signed a 5 year lease and had a very good relationship with the landlord (no, he did not raise our feed).  However, about 1 year before our lease ran out, he hired someone else to oversee his properties, and things started to go downhill.  Our rent was to go up at the end of our lease and we felt it was not worth it for how small the barn was.  So, once again, we started searching for another place.  It is one thing to move your family, but another thing to move your family, a herd of cows and equipment.  We searched state wide, and in surrounding states, for a farm.  None seemed to be the place for us.  By March/April 2004, we had much of our belongings packed away in a tractor trailer, but nowhere to go.  We were considering selling the cows and even had a cow dealer scheduled to come look at them.   Then one of our feedmen brought a flyer of a farm for sale back in the area we came from.   God had His hand in it, some deals were offered and we decided to buy it.  However,  it would not be ready to move into by the time we had to move out of our farm.  A wonderful friend of ours had a barn that we could use, so he fixed it up for us to move the cows there.  Ok, the cows now had a place to move to, but where do we go?  In June, we moved into my mom's basement.  We thought is would only be for about 3-4 weeks.  It turned into 3 months!  During that 3 months, we were able to move the cows onto our farm, but the house needed much attention and we could not live there while working on it.  Let me tell you, it was the most difficult 3 months for our family.  Oh, we were very thankful to my mom for putting up with us, for friends who came and helped us each week, but traveling back and forth, spending all summer working our heads off trying to get the house ready to live in took it's toll on our family.  Uriah and Oliver were just small and I remember Uriah wondering where his home was.  In September, we moved into the house, although it was not finished, it was a necessary thing to do.  This year marks the 7th year that we will be here.  Wow!  That long already?  Alot has happened since we moved here, but for some reason whenever May and June rolls around, memories of those uncertain times in 2004 flood back.  One obvious thing sticks out to us and that is how God knew where we were going to move to, but He choose to surprise us with the answer at the last minute.  We see His hand in all our farming days.  It has been a test of faith.  It has been a journey, a journey with a lot of trials, but a journey necessary for character building and our spiritual growth.   The journey will continue and I am sure it will hold it's share of trials and lessons, for you see, that is what life is all about - trials, triumphs, lessons, learning and growing, always learning and growing.  It will end with the grave and meeting the One who has traveled the journey with us.
    Until next time...........

Monday, May 9, 2011

Happy 45th to Dave


Monday, 09 May 2011

  • Happy Birthday to Dave

    Yesterday, we went to Dave's parents home for lunch to celebrate Easter, Mother's Day, and Dave's birthday, which is tomorrow.  It was such a beautiful day!  This weather is exactly what we have been waiting for all winter!
    Happy 45th birthday to my hubby, my dearest friend and wonderful father!  I love staying young with this man!


    We did not make him a birthday cake this year, since he does not eat any wheat.  Kelsey made fruit pizza, so we put candles in that.  He enjoyed eating all the topping off and left the cookie part for someone else to eat.  Somewhat difficult to put candles in tapioca pudding.  We had a nice day together with family.
    Until next time...........

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

One Year Youlder


Tuesday, 03 May 2011

  • One Year Youlder!

    Another birthday has come and gone for me and I am now 45 years yould!  According to the Weidenhamster's Dictionary 2011, the definition of "yould" is combining young and old, meaning staying young while getting old.  I refuse to think of myself as getting older, it is just our children that seem to be growing up so fast, not me!  Plus, I really think alot depends on how we look at ourselves.  My grandma was 99 when she died, but she always seemed 20 years younger than her age.  She refused to act her age!  So, I am determined to follow in her footsteps and refuse to get "old"!
    My family knows how I treasure times when I do not have to prepare a meal and clean it up, so this year I was pampered.  Ben treated me to supper at the Texas Road House on Thurs. evening.  My supper consisted of "Road Kill" with salad and rice.  I thoroughly enjoyed spending one on one time with Ben and I loved the meal, too.  My sister prepared lunch for our family on Sunday....let's see....should I continue to share the menus?  Ok, we had chicken breast, mashed potatoes, corn, red beets, salad, pickles, cake, ice-cream and jello.  Hungry yet?  I'll have to give you her phone # so you can invite yourself for your birthday.  It was great!
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    To top off my day, Kelsey made supper and they came down to eat it with us after chore time.  And we had....burrito casserole with salad, frozen pineapple dessert and my favorite...lemon meringue pie!  Everything was so delicious, so proud of her!  I can also pass along her phone # to you, too, if you are interested!  I cherish when we are able to be together as a family...
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    and of course being with Ms. Oakley...
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    Uriah gave me the sweetest little note, a coupon for a free 10 min. shoulder rub (from him), and $1.00.
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    Oliver gave me some art work and $1.00...
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    Dave & I are planning on going to Hoss' again to celebrate both of our birthdays (his is the 10th) and I will have to let you know what we had to eat later!   I know for sure they would be delighted to serve you a meal for your birthday!  With other moneys I received  for gifts, I bought fishing rods!!!  Very much looking forward to going fishing........
    I had a wonderful birthday and must admit...I love being 45 years yould!!
    Until next time...........