Zechariah 13:9

And I will bring the third part through the fire, and will refine them as silver is refined, and will try them as gold is tried; they shall call on my name, and I will hear them: I will say, It is my people: and they shall say, The Lord is my God. Zechariah 13:9

Wednesday, June 1, 2011

That Dreaded Chapter!


Wednesday, 01 June 2011

  • That Dreaded Chapter!

    Anyone want to take a guess at which chapter I am referring to?  A large part of it has to do with women.  We had been working through the Proverbs as a family and came to chapter 31.  "Oh, please Dave, couldn't we just skip over this one?"  I have this love/hate relationship with this Proverbs 31 woman and depending on how I am feeling about myself, I would just like to ignore her - to just forget about that chapter.   I wonder how anxious a man would be at reading a chapter that laid out 22 points about the excellent man?  I guess that would depend on how macho he felt about himself at the moment.
    Well, we read the chapter, discussed it and my dear husband reassured me that he felt no condemnation towards me at all.  He is so gracious!  I have been thinking . . . . . . about this wonder woman . . . . . . 
    "She is rare, trustworthy, constant in her love and respect towards her husband, industrious, thrifty, self-starting, enterprising, willing to do hard work, willing to work long hours, willing to do monotonous work, compassionate, prepared for the future, a good seamstress, married to a leader, an entrepreneur, not swayed by circumstances, wise and kind, duty-conscious, blessed by her family, not satisfied with the mediocre, a woman of God, praiseworthy, a woman of means and a woman of great skill and ability.  She is a woman of God who is enterprising and dedicated to her home." (from the footnotes in my Bible)
    Over the years, I have witnessed people setting "unspoken" guidelines on what a woman should and shouldn't do or be, because "that" is a man's responsibility, or "that" does not look like something a submissive wife would do.  What "submissive" wife would go out and buy property and then proceed to make it a productive piece of land?  This woman does!  She works hard, very hard, from sun up to sun down and I know that she did it cheerfully and lovingly, for her husband and her children call her "blessed" (not "grumpy") and her husband praises and trusts her.  Her whole being is dedicated to serving . . .  serving her husband, her family, her community . . . simply, quietly, firmly, and boldly.  She realizes that she is a key person in creating the right atmosphere in her home, in demonstrating Godly principles to her children.  She is no whipped pup, but a woman with a purpose and goal to make life as good as possible while meeting the physical, material and spiritual needs of her family.  Should we get discouraged thinking about this woman?  I don't think so.  I couldn't find anywhere about her age, but really, she could be 105.  So take heart, we still have time!  Hee! Hee!  No, seriously, I serve a God who is patient, loving, compassionate, understanding, not only to those around me, but to me and to you -busy, sometimes overwhelmed, not-getting-it-all-done, wife and mother.   He knows where each of us are in our journey of womanhood and He knows our hearts and desires!  I will choose to rest in Him, and in my husband, for their acceptance and guidance and will continue to look at this Proverbs 31 woman in awe and wonder, for truly she is a rare find.
    Until next time.............

Thursday, May 19, 2011

Our Farm Life Beginnings


Thursday, 19 May 2011

  • Our Farm Life Beginnings

    Dave has always had agriculture in his blood.   He did not grow up on a farm, but helped neighboring farmers either grow produce or milk cows.  I, also, did not grow up on a farm and never dreamt that I would ever live on one.  Dave eventually started working in construction.  After we got married and were able to live in the country on 2 acres, Dave was able to satisfy some of his agriculture longings by growing produce and selling it to local stores and going to produce auctions.  At the beginning of 1998, we opened a small bulk food and produce store.  We were only open on Thursdays, Fridays and Saturdays.  It started out looking like this.....but we quickly built shelves and counters....
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    We raised what we could for the store and also purchased wholesale from Bill's Produce. Around the time we were getting ready to open this, Dave fell 13 ft. through a barn floor at a construction site.  He hit his head, needed stitches, had a concussion, broke some ribs and twisted his knee.  We also learned that I was pregnant with #4.
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    He was off work for about 3 months, which allowed him time to do what he could in the store.  We LOVED having him home and it was during this time that we decided to seriously pursue a career that would enable us to work together as a family.  The day he returned to construction there was not a dry eye in our family.   The store thrived all summer and we were loving it, but we reached a point where we either had to get bigger and hire help (our children were not old enough to run it), or quit.  It did not have the income for Dave to quit construction.  I became very restricted with my pregnancy and eventually had to be on bedrest.  Taking all things into consideration, we decided to sell the store.  Sad, but a necessary thing.  However, our goal remained to look for another family opportunity.  We heard of a local farmer who was looking for tenants to rent a farm he just purchased.  Our goal was met and in January 1999, we started milking 98 cows in a palor.
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    We could write a book about the adjustments to dairy life!  Ben was 10, Kelsey 8, Solomon 5, and George 3 months.  We were not able to move into the house on the farm yet, so we had to travel about 1 1/2 miles back and forth to the cows.  Oh my, did we learn alot!  We still talk about the time when we learned that we were going to be dairy farmers and we would be able to work together as a family.  Dave's comment still rings in our ears "this is going to be great!".  That "great" soon, and very soon, became harsh reality!  To some people, dairy farming looks like this gravy occupation where we leisurely milk cows and have part of the day off.  Not true!  Those cows needed to eat and they eat LOTS, which mean they also produce alot of manure, which needed to be cleaned up. We had heifers and calves that needed care and milking took about 2 1/2 hrs. every AM & PM.  We had to have hired help.  Our days became a blur and we realized that our idea of farming was not farming like this.  We didn't want this many cows, nor hired help, nor someone else in control of the feed (we had a deal with the farm owner - he raised the feed for part of the milk check - don't let anyone do that!).  We started looking for a smaller farm, with tie stalls, and one day we saw an ad in the Lancaster Farming that a farm was for rent in a neighboring county.  The barn had not been milked in for years, but could be set up again for dairy.  We took the plunge.  Our family and friends came along side of us and helped to get the place ready for us to move in.
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    That is it!  The picture was taken at the door, so that is how small the barn was.  It was only 28 stalls, so we sold 1/2 the herd.  We would milk all the cows in the barn and then let 1/2 of them out and bring more in.  It was still alot of hard work, but after 2 years of adjusting to the new place, we loved it!  We loved our neighbors, the community, and the farm!  We got to the point where we did not need a hire hand.  Dave had to work away a few days a week, though, but it was still good.  We have many fond memories of the place on Schwartz Valley Rd..  We had signed a 5 year lease and had a very good relationship with the landlord (no, he did not raise our feed).  However, about 1 year before our lease ran out, he hired someone else to oversee his properties, and things started to go downhill.  Our rent was to go up at the end of our lease and we felt it was not worth it for how small the barn was.  So, once again, we started searching for another place.  It is one thing to move your family, but another thing to move your family, a herd of cows and equipment.  We searched state wide, and in surrounding states, for a farm.  None seemed to be the place for us.  By March/April 2004, we had much of our belongings packed away in a tractor trailer, but nowhere to go.  We were considering selling the cows and even had a cow dealer scheduled to come look at them.   Then one of our feedmen brought a flyer of a farm for sale back in the area we came from.   God had His hand in it, some deals were offered and we decided to buy it.  However,  it would not be ready to move into by the time we had to move out of our farm.  A wonderful friend of ours had a barn that we could use, so he fixed it up for us to move the cows there.  Ok, the cows now had a place to move to, but where do we go?  In June, we moved into my mom's basement.  We thought is would only be for about 3-4 weeks.  It turned into 3 months!  During that 3 months, we were able to move the cows onto our farm, but the house needed much attention and we could not live there while working on it.  Let me tell you, it was the most difficult 3 months for our family.  Oh, we were very thankful to my mom for putting up with us, for friends who came and helped us each week, but traveling back and forth, spending all summer working our heads off trying to get the house ready to live in took it's toll on our family.  Uriah and Oliver were just small and I remember Uriah wondering where his home was.  In September, we moved into the house, although it was not finished, it was a necessary thing to do.  This year marks the 7th year that we will be here.  Wow!  That long already?  Alot has happened since we moved here, but for some reason whenever May and June rolls around, memories of those uncertain times in 2004 flood back.  One obvious thing sticks out to us and that is how God knew where we were going to move to, but He choose to surprise us with the answer at the last minute.  We see His hand in all our farming days.  It has been a test of faith.  It has been a journey, a journey with a lot of trials, but a journey necessary for character building and our spiritual growth.   The journey will continue and I am sure it will hold it's share of trials and lessons, for you see, that is what life is all about - trials, triumphs, lessons, learning and growing, always learning and growing.  It will end with the grave and meeting the One who has traveled the journey with us.
    Until next time...........

Monday, May 9, 2011

Happy 45th to Dave


Monday, 09 May 2011

  • Happy Birthday to Dave

    Yesterday, we went to Dave's parents home for lunch to celebrate Easter, Mother's Day, and Dave's birthday, which is tomorrow.  It was such a beautiful day!  This weather is exactly what we have been waiting for all winter!
    Happy 45th birthday to my hubby, my dearest friend and wonderful father!  I love staying young with this man!


    We did not make him a birthday cake this year, since he does not eat any wheat.  Kelsey made fruit pizza, so we put candles in that.  He enjoyed eating all the topping off and left the cookie part for someone else to eat.  Somewhat difficult to put candles in tapioca pudding.  We had a nice day together with family.
    Until next time...........

Tuesday, May 3, 2011

One Year Youlder


Tuesday, 03 May 2011

  • One Year Youlder!

    Another birthday has come and gone for me and I am now 45 years yould!  According to the Weidenhamster's Dictionary 2011, the definition of "yould" is combining young and old, meaning staying young while getting old.  I refuse to think of myself as getting older, it is just our children that seem to be growing up so fast, not me!  Plus, I really think alot depends on how we look at ourselves.  My grandma was 99 when she died, but she always seemed 20 years younger than her age.  She refused to act her age!  So, I am determined to follow in her footsteps and refuse to get "old"!
    My family knows how I treasure times when I do not have to prepare a meal and clean it up, so this year I was pampered.  Ben treated me to supper at the Texas Road House on Thurs. evening.  My supper consisted of "Road Kill" with salad and rice.  I thoroughly enjoyed spending one on one time with Ben and I loved the meal, too.  My sister prepared lunch for our family on Sunday....let's see....should I continue to share the menus?  Ok, we had chicken breast, mashed potatoes, corn, red beets, salad, pickles, cake, ice-cream and jello.  Hungry yet?  I'll have to give you her phone # so you can invite yourself for your birthday.  It was great!
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    To top off my day, Kelsey made supper and they came down to eat it with us after chore time.  And we had....burrito casserole with salad, frozen pineapple dessert and my favorite...lemon meringue pie!  Everything was so delicious, so proud of her!  I can also pass along her phone # to you, too, if you are interested!  I cherish when we are able to be together as a family...
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    and of course being with Ms. Oakley...
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    Uriah gave me the sweetest little note, a coupon for a free 10 min. shoulder rub (from him), and $1.00.
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    Oliver gave me some art work and $1.00...
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    Dave & I are planning on going to Hoss' again to celebrate both of our birthdays (his is the 10th) and I will have to let you know what we had to eat later!   I know for sure they would be delighted to serve you a meal for your birthday!  With other moneys I received  for gifts, I bought fishing rods!!!  Very much looking forward to going fishing........
    I had a wonderful birthday and must admit...I love being 45 years yould!!
    Until next time...........

Sunday, April 17, 2011

Bethel Community Safety Day


Sunday, 17 April 2011

  • Bethel Community Safety Day

    Two years ago our homeschool group was talking about putting together an activity to teach children safety.  I had volunteered for that activity and the Bethel library wondered if that was something that could be done at their location for anyone to come.  After talking to the Bethel fire chief in regards to having them bring a fire truck for a demonstration, it was decided that it would have to be on a Saturday, for the firemen have jobs and are not available during the week except for emergencies.  Saturdays were not good days for the library.  Jeff, the chief, offered to let me have it at the fire house and have it as a community event, not just a homeschool event.  Also, there was a lot more room there than at the library.  Jeff said that he and his wife would help wherever they could and do fire safety for the children.  We worked very well together and it turned out to be a really good, beautiful weather, day filled with lots of safety info. for the children (and adults), and was a good event to bring the community together.  We had Smokey the Bear, 911, ambulance, fire trucks, state police, IDme, and Pennstar helicopter (which flew in for the accident victim).  Here are a few pictures from 2009....
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    This year the assistant fire chief, Mike, wondered if another safety day should be arranged.  The day was scheduled for April 16th, with no rain date, for there are too many people that have to be scheduled for the day.  This year we decided to still have the state police (a favorite), 911, and Smokey (who the kids love), but to have some different demonstrators, also.  We decided to do lawn mower, and water safety and get the "smoke house", which is a trailer that you go in and they fill with fake smoke to teach children how to get out of a burning house safely.  In the smoke house they also talk about what to do in a tornado and how to use an extinguisher.  All the demonstrators did a great job and the children learned a lot of good stuff!  Well, this Spring has been VERY rainy and the forecast for the 16th was....you guessed it!.... rain, wind, and not too warm temps.  So, we had to give up the idea of being outside and arranged for everyone to be inside the fire house.  Here are just a few pictures.....
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    My pictures didn't get so great from inside, but here are some from the accident scene, which the firemen decided to do in spite of the rain......  we have a "dead" driver in car, an ejected victim from pickup on car hood, and a trapped driver of pickup still in drivers seat..
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    Rescue begins with Sara.....
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    Then Solomon, the texting driver of pickup......
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    I missed the extraction of Paul, the dead driver, but they all got hauled away in ambulances.....
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    Narrator Bob telling us about the accident and the dangers of texting while driving.....
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    A local fire company brought their ladder truck....if it had been a nice day, they would have allowed someone to climb it.....
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    We had a good day in spite of the rain.  By the way, Jettas are good cars.  They had a hard time "wrecking" it on friday, but on the flip side, they also had a very difficult time cutting the victim out on Sat..
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    A BIG thanks to everyone, especially Mike and Margaret!  You did a great job!   Thanks for all the cooperation and helping hands and thanks, Joe, for taping the whole thing!!   Videos will be available to anyone who is interested.  Let me know!
    Until next time..........

Thursday, March 31, 2011

Cheese, Composters, and Blessings


Thursday, 31 March 2011

  • Cheese, Composters, and Blessings

    A huge benefit of living on a dairy farm is having abundant milk.  Milk to drink, to make ice-cream, milkshakes, and cheese.  I haven't made cheese in a long time, partly because we live close to Hornings :), and partly because I seem to find other things to do rather then take the time to make cheese.  However, it is cheaper for me to make our own, even though Hornings has reasonable prices, and we love homemade cheese.  Dave has been after me to start making it again, so we will see if I can be consistent (which is not one of my strong points), and make some each week.  It is rather simple and requires few ingredients.  If you have access to raw milk, maybe you want to give it a whirl.
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    Huge kettle, timer, thermometer, cheesecloth, cheese press, 4 gallons milk (if not raw, whole, for sure), 2 cups cultured buttermilk, 4 tablets junket, 2 tbsp. salt, and time.
    Pour milk, buttermilk and junket (dissolved in 1/4 c. water) in kettle and heat to 86 degrees.  This is lukewarm to the touch, just in case your thermometer don't go that low. Turn heat off.  Let set for 1 hour.  Cut curds and heat to 102 degrees. Turn heat off.  Let set 1 hour. Drain off whey by pouring into a cheesecloth lined strainer (whey is suppose to be very good for you and you can use it in your baking, too).  Mix the salt into the curds and gather curds into cheesecloth.  Put into press for about 1/2 hr, then flip block of cheese over and press for about 1 -2 hrs. with 15-20 # of weight.  Cure for 2 months (if you really can, we can't leave ours alone).      
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    Something that we have been thinking about is composting.  It seems we usually have alot of food scraps, not that we are wasteful people, we're not , but we do not like the stems of broccoli, or carrot peelings, or the wrinkled outer leaves of cabbage, or cores of apples, or things that are found in the back of fridge that smell funny.  I found this really neat website that gave instructions on making a compost bin and the boys were all game to help make one.  We could envision this rich composted soil that worms would love and that we could put on the garden, instead of what we were doing...tossing the scraps across the street in the weeds and wondering why we smell skunk every now and then!   After some discussion, though, George decided to purchase not one, but two composters, and I think this is a much better deal than making one.  What do you think?
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    Scraps in....sausage and bacon out....win - win solution!  Have you ever gotten close enough to one of these critters to notice their eyes?  Almost creepy... they are so human like.....
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    I wanted to share something that we have been doing for years that has blessed us as a family.  Life gets so busy sometimes that we forget, or neglect, to pay special attention to each other.  We each seem to get lost in the shuffle.  We have a laminated chart on the fridge with the days of the week going down the paper.  Each of our family names are cut out and laminated so they last longer.  At the beginning of the week, we put all the names in a bowl and pick one out at a time and put them behind the days....like this....
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    We each have a special day on which we, especially, get prayed for and get a special place setting at supper.  Each week the names get shuffled again and our special days get changed.  The boys just love setting that special spot and love being named in the prayer.  Something simple, but meaningful to us.  We find that summer time is not so easy to do this, for if we are busy with outside work, our meals are not always so organized, but this works really well in the winter time.  It just so happens that our names hold out for the number of days, but if it don't for you, you could repeat names or put other people's names in a place and then pray for them, give them a phone call or send a card.
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    Blesssings.......
    Until next time................

Sunday, March 20, 2011

Rainy Days, Heartburn, Old Friends, a Treat


Sunday, 20 March 2011

  • Rainy Days, Heartburn, Old Friends, a Treat

    Ummm....interesting title.....so, am I indicating that old friends cause heartburn on rainy days while eating a treat?  Nope!  Just updating on what has been happening around here.
    I love rainy days!!  I love to hear the rain on a tin roof and smell the wet earth.  But, most of all, I love rainy days when indoor projects get done because the men can't work outside.  That was what happened at the beginning of last week.  We had a bedroom wall that was unfinished.  The logs needed to be chinked and it was one of those projects that just did not have priority - until now.  Last summer we had wasps in our bedroom too many times and they were able to come in from the attic eves through an unchinked space.  So, Dave put it high on the priority list.  He also decided that it was something that the boys really could learn to do and so it became a great elective for school....learning to chink logs.
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    They did an excellent job and I expect no wasps this year!   Another project that got finished (almost, still needs trim) on a rainy day was a wall between the mud room and rest of porch. 
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    We were blessed with a free, beautiful door that someone had put out at their mailbox for free.  It worked perfect!  Once again, Dave thought the boys could learn some skills, so....another elective....learning to hang a door.
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    There are MANY more projects that need done in the house, so bring on the rain!   No, seriously, our house really does need lots more work, but slowly it is getting there.  It is not new, not perfect, but it is our HOME and that is what matters.
    Heartburn.....for many, many years it has been Dave's companion and not a welcome one, either.  As the years progressed, it became more & more frequent until it was an every day thing.  For a long time, we thought it was all stress related.  Then, we started really thinking that it wasn't just stress, but also something he was eating.  Was it the eggs in the morning?  Or dairy?  Maybe meat?  The last few months it had gotten so severe that he was eating next to nothing and still got heartburn.  He was convinced he had cancer, for now he not only had heartburn, he had stomach pain.  He tried the prilosec and got relief, until a week after he finished it.  Anyway, something had to be done and he wanted to try something else before seeing a specialist.  Well, he is now heartburn free!!!  Praise the Lord!!  What was the culprit?  Wheat!  As soon as he took all wheat out of his diet the heartburn and pain was gone.   One time he thought he would test it and ate a piece of homemade bread and pronto! heartburn.  He can now eat whenever he wants and anything he wants, but wheat, and he does great.  We can't believe it!  After all these years and it was wheat?  Why, oh why, didn't we think of it sooner?
    Time marches on, we get older, our families grow, we make new friends and some things are forgotten.  However, some things are not forgotten and they live on through all the circumstances of life.  That is how it is for the friendship of 4 women.  "Us" 4 women.  We have known each other since the beginning of our lives and have grown up together.  Each of us eventually got married and somewhat went separate ways.  However, every now and then we get together and reconnect.  This week, we were able to have lunch together again.  2 of us are grandmas now and all of us have been through different trials and changes in our lives.  It was really nice to catch up and enjoy a few short hours together.
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    Eating out twice in 1 week?  wahoo!  I can stand it!  Last night, Gordon and Kelsey took Dave & I out to eat for part of our Christmas present.  The choice was ours and after much deliberating it was Golden Corral.  Our opinion?  uhhh.....not first pick.  Hoss' still ranks among #1.  We had a really nice time, just the 4 of us.  Thanks to our favorite daughter & son-in-law for the treat! 
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    Until next time................