Today marked our 27th anniversary.
We were trying to decide what we wanted to do, for a date night has become a rare happening for us. Not because we don't want to go on a date together, it is just that life seems to whiz by before our eyes - zoom! there goes a day - zoom zoom another day - another day - and before you know it, we seem to be living together - me the maid - him the provider - friends in the passing.
We thought it would be fun to go to a restaurant and then catch a movie - no!
Didn't care for movie selections
How 'bout go to a restaurant and then play minature golf - no!
Neither of us wanted to play minature golf
Ok, go to a restaurant and then find a little romantic nook somewhere - no!
Didn't know where to find that romantic nook - without staying overnight, that is.
I know, we really do need to get out more! And expand our minds, for sure! We have just become a pair of old fogies! Boring old fogies trying to agree on something exciting!
Well, we knew we definitely were going to go out to eat!
So we decided to go to an old favorite - Hoss'.
By the time we arrived, I was entering in a hypoglycemic fit. I knew I needed to eat, but when I did I felt so sick on my stomach. So, there we were - on our supposedly romantic date - and I end up in tears of frustration. I slowly recovered and we left the restaurant and went to a decided little romantic rendezvous - Ollies! And then onto Staples, next to the Dollar General and lastly - Giant!
At least when we get home, we will watch a movie together while the boys go to bed. We heard good reviews of Les'Miserables, so that is what we'll watch. Needless to say, after 10 minutes, we both decided that this is just not the kind of movie either of us want to watch.
A romantic date? Not exactly. Am I complaining? NO WAY!
Would I take an evening like that again? YES WAY! (except for the hypoglycemic fit)
We had a wonderful evening together - romantic or not!
We were together - secure in our love for each other.
Sometimes it really isn't about romance at all!
It is about dedication, commitment, trust and self-denial.
Romance is a side benefit.
I certainly am looking forward to many more years with this man, who is my friend, lover, and lord. In the meantime, I think I better start thinking where on earth, especially near Berks Co., we can go on our next date. Maybe fishing.......
Until next time.......